The fact that I want both or either at the same time is a sign of my extremes.

One part of me, the elegant chic girl wants to cool down and at the same time refresh, cheer up and celebrate – to enjoy.

The other half, the old fashioned, classical country side woman, wants to just mock and laugh and warm up her chest to the sweet bitter memories of life.

Both are true, unique and real – no fake news on the radio, no reality show on TV.

I accept them both and love them both – though at times how to meet their expectations and live up to their aspirations becomes an issue.

A matter of time I say, just be patient. There’ll be a time when both the chic girl and the down to earth woman meet on common grounds. They hug each other and kiss on the forehead and admit that they’ve always been the one.

The same unique and wonderful character they are.